nowadays, young people are faced up with many problems including studying, social relationships, love, friends... even sex! i want to share with you one of the hottest topics is the sex. it is obvious that our country is integating, developing day by day. and it brings many good things to us. we have many opportunities to expess ourselves, our ability, strenghten knowledge and so on. but "a coin always has two sides". we can't deny that it also brings out many negative things such as the traditional culture is changing. and one of them is the concept of the young people about love and sex!
the westen people have the "open" one about love and sex. but what about the easten one even the vietnamese? the VNESE is affected this, but just for young people.
the elder people feel not natural when talking to young people about sex! why why? the anwser is so simple. because they are the traditional people and the think that sex is the sensitive topic, it is difficult to talk face to face. they usually find the other way to show what they mean. and sometimes, it is difficult for their children to understand. and the fact we're facing the bad sex education at schools. it makes students curious. and as the result, they themselves find out. and the bad things are unavoidable. and the prolem is how to limit the negative things.
it is high time to speak seriously about sex. it sounds very selfish that vietnamese men talk that having sex before marriage for men is normal but they don't like even don't want to get married to a women having sex before marriage! talking about sex in Vietnam is almost a taboo subject, so sex stories Jokes to be turned into somewhat taboo suject variable and sensitive to the more easily said, to overcome the Confucian concept century engraving as wel as progandaa hard time still weighed heavily on the way i think of at least two generations( before/ during/ after the war) in Vietnam.
ask what you don't know and learn to protect yourself by the serious thought!